You are not for everybody. Not everybody is for you.

It took me a long time to feel this. As I’ve said before, I may know things intellectually but until I feel them to my core I don’t completely understand them.

Being a people-pleaser and approval-seeker from the beginning, this concept was completely foreign and incongruent to my belief system for a long time. It’s probably only been the last year, possibly less, that those beliefs have changed.

It’s all about vibration. If these words I write resonate with you, well we’re on the same page. If they don’t, that’s cool, I’m just not for you.

I’m not going to go into the “if we were all the same life would be boring” stuff here. That doesn’t really matter. What matters is that we know whoever we are is perfect, that our tribe, coven or group is out there, and they get us. The thing is, if you’re too busy trying to impress other people, you’re not going to be vibrating at the right frequency for you to connect with them.

So what’s my point? Live from your heart, your soul. Be authentic. Be kind and compassionate. Vibrate at your true frequency, and attract your people to you. Honestly, it’s magic.

As for people who don’t understand you, don’t worry about them. One day they might meet you on a wave that resonates, but then again maybe they won’t. And that’s ok.

With Infinite Love and Gratitude,
Lauren